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2.1K votes, 401 comments. Link to the original: AITA for telling my bf it isn't appropriate to come to the family vacation Hello everyone!I hope your…Man Asks If He's Wrong For Advising His Lesbian Niece To Stay In The Closet Until She Gets Her Inheritance From Her Homophobic Grandpa. When his teenage niece came out to her about her sexuality, one man found himself carrying information not every family member had access to. Even if the weight of the secret stopped there, it would be a lot ...AITA telling my niece she can leave after she went against the rules in my home, which she was staying in rent free? ETA: when I said no socializing I meant no one at my …HEY We've got an update on how the couple is doing in: AITA for not telling the nurse at my niece's school about my profession?Like one of my other nieces is a single mom of 3 who left an abusive man has a spare bedroom my Neice could move in there and help with the kids not instead she’s on my small 2 bedroom apartment and she’s in my daughters room whose away at college with 6 cats cause they act like she’s the devil.Your niece won't die bc she doesn't have exactly the dress she wants. Sounds like she could do with a lesson in appreciating things for what they are, not what they cost.El Cucuy is Mexico’s version of the boogie man or the monster in the closet or under the bed. Parents use El Cucuy as a way to scare children into obedience by telling them that if...10000000% YTA like you're taking your husband's NIECE but you can't take your own son. Dump the niece and bring your son you cold hearted b*tch. And screw your new husband for not even telling you just deciding for you your son's not going. That poor boy is probably feeling so rejected and tossed aside. I'll take him.Alright, here's the update: After making my post, I decided to search for divorce lawyers in my area with my sister. It took awhile, but I managed to find and meet with one who was willing to do virtual consultations.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!RealSimple's web site rounds up tips from readers on how they keep clutter out of their homes, and one reader in particular has a pretty clever way of both keeping their closet org...AITA for telling my niece to stay in the closet until she gets her inheritance? My (42M) niece (17F) recently confided in me that she is a lesbian. I supported her, let her know I'd be there, etc. Usual ally stuff. However, she told me she was going to come out to the whole world this week.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my soon-to-be niece that she could wear whatever she wanted to the wedding 2) She's not my child and I probably don't have the right to …Nta tell them they got to go through court to get her. And I doubt they'll want to do that and I doubt a judge will give them any sort of custody of your niece.I (42M) have a niece Lily (18F). Lily is the result of an affair my ex fiancee had with my brother while we were still together. I was led to believe Lily was mine throughout the entire pregnancy and almost signed her birth certificate before my ex confessed out of guilt that Lily was probably my brothers.YTA- I don't think it was your responsibility to tell your niece that. YTA, as a teacher at a K-8 school, there are still many students that are 10 and believe. I understand you wanting her to know the truth, but there were many other more appropriate ways that you could have gone about it. ESH.If she comes out as a lesbian and they find out, she will quite literally lose out on 7 million dollars. The OP says once he told his niece about the potential inheritance she seemed "a little sad" but also seemed to appreciate knowing about it. Seven million dollars can change your whole life, obviously. But this didn't go over too well ...A little back story. My wife and I met at 21. We’ve been very happy together every since. We got married at 28 when she was pregnant with our daughter. I work full time in a very high stress but lucrative field. My wife stays home to take care of our little girl and the household. We are both 33.My niece knows this which is why, I think, she can speak to me so openly about this stuff. She knows I won't judge. That I won't tell her to keep her name to make her mom happy or that her name is beautiful and traditional and she should be proud of it.AITA if I stop watching my niece knowing I'm the last person my brother in law has. Not the A-hole. I 31 (f) have been watching my niece (8) for my brother in law (34) for almost a year now. I am the last person he has to watch her because she has behavior problems. I also have three kids of my own. My niece doesn't go to the same school as my ...Thoughts?My mom used to tell my sisters and me don't start a fight if you can't finish it. Meaning don't start something if you can't take it. Your mom started the fight and you finished it, she just couldn't take what she started. Edit: my sisters and I were always provoking each other and complaining about the retaliation after it.My brother 'Jack' (36m) let us stay at his place while we sort everything out and we're grateful to him. Jack's profession means his work hours are all over the place. My niece 'Lacey' (3F) usually stays with a sitter or with her maternal grandparents while Jack's at work."AITA for letting my brother and family stay with me after a flooding but not my niece?" I (37M) have been married to my husband (41M) for 4 years. I came out my family as bi when I was 16 and from the very beginning, they were nothing but supportive and to this day, almost my entire family accepts me as who I am. My niece (20F) is the only ...AITA for not forcing my niece to visit her dad. My niece, Tessa (17), has a restraining order against my sister (her mom). She used to live with her dad (my ex bil) full time and when she was younger, he'd drop her off at my house and leave her for months at a time. Even when he stopped leaving her with me, she'd ride her bike to my house ...AITA for telling my niece that she will survive not being the center of attention for one night?My niece (20F) is the only exception. She is my brother‘s (43M) daughter and despite her parents showing no prejudices against the LGBTQ+ community, she doesn’t make a secret of her homophobia. I don‘t know where her believes stem from but the day I first introduced my husband/ then boyfriend to her family, she has been very hostile ...YTA. She could have told you that you are neglecting your child. Different parenting styles doesn't mean either one is wrong. Now you can mind your own business while paying for a place to stay.I heard from the youngest, Ryan, that he had moved into my old bedroom a while back. Cool, I quickly forgot about it. Ryan called me the other day asking if I could help him with college apps. I happily agreed, but when we went on the Zoom call, I saw he was in my room. Not the room I had used, my room exactly as I had left it years ago.AITA? No. Taking in this child will be awful for her and for you. Don't do it. My girlfriend and I are childfree as well. We are willing to do almost anything for anyone, aside from a few hard boundaries. Holding babies, babysitting and being guardians. My girlfriend's cousin tried to pressure us into becoming guardians for his son if something ...Ok sounds bad but let me explain. So a couple days ago my nephew let's call him Lance he came to me at my house, now this is normal me and him have a…That her brother will always be more to me than she'll ever be. Then my niece started yelling at me again telling me that I'm being unfair and hung up. My sister then called me to berate me about how I need to do more, I told her if she wouldn't have promised a car to her or my money to my niece no of this wouldn't have happened.Warning her daughter why she has been telling her not to be around Cousin is not making the daughter "take responsibility for a criminal" or "take responsibility for protecting herself from rape".AITA for telling my niece that she will survive not being the center of attention for one night?UPDATE - AITA for telling my wife it was a mistake to stay at a baby shower? UPDATE. So I texted my coworker (let's call him frank) and asked if we could talk so we met up during our lunch break. I apologised for everything that happened.The goal of closet organization is simple. Get your clothing, shoes, and accessories in order so that you can get dressed quickly and easily, wearing outfits that you love! Take a ...NTA this 100 percent. Plus depending on the surgery, but more than likely your immune system is already wore down making you getting sick more easy. This could cause you to end up in the hospital. Sick leave is for you to recover not babysit someone else's sick child.AITA for telling my niece to "keep it together until you can get the hell out"? I (42m) parted ways with my brother (42) a while ago based on differences of opinion, but he called me recently. He saw a video of his daughter (16) "slandering and insulting" him on her friend's podcast.See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE: AITA pissed at what my wife said to my niece. First I want to thank everyone for their responses. It was helpful, even some I disagreed with. While things aren't perfect, they're both good kids and my wife is making amends for what she did. Since then my wife and I have been ...AITA for telling my niece to "keep it together until you can get the heck out?" - #storytime #redditreadings #storytelling #reddit. Can Crushin · Original audioA place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation.My SIL passed away and her daughters needed home. MIL was pressuring us to take them and I told her we wanted nothing to do with being parents to our nieces. She hung up on me and won't speak to me, and now is sending my husband statistic of children in foster care and saying we could've prevented it. Maybe I am the AH because we have the space and money to foster.My sister was reluctant at first but after seeing her niece's engagement they ended up talking for over an hour sharing her good and bad experiences and some funny stories.Image credits: u/New_Possibility_9820 The mom didn't follow the sister's lead and decided to leave everything as is - and the sis got offended by this. So, the Original Poster (OP) says that a few weeks ago, she gave birth to her second child, a girl. The new mom agreed in advance with her husband that they would name their daughter Alannah - and solemnly announced the name to ...Their lease almost ended and my parents invited them to stay at our house. The day they came, Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my room yet. I was confused, like wtf, and he told me that he and Jill will be at my room and I go to guest room. I refused, but my parents got mad, we got into a fight, I lost and ended in much smaller guest room.I told my husband that I don't want to cancel our France plans so we can go to Fairbanks with his niece and sister's family. If he wants to, he can go on his own.I refused to give my niece a referral for a job at my workplace as I never worked with her and she failed a test I gave her, this might make me an asshole since she was laid off and needs a new job.I, 41F, told my niece(10), several weeks ago she could go trick or treating with us. Last week, she came over after school to play with my daughter(10). After about an hour of playing, my daughter comes out of her room in tears. I asked her what was wrong, and she said "niece told me you unalived my little brother."**aita for telling my niece to stay in the closet** I understand that coming out can be a difficult and personal decision, but I believe that it's important to be true to yourself. I think that your niece should be able to live her life authentically, without fear of judgment…And, to answer your question: my niece isn’t expected to share anything of her‘s with her cousins, as I understand that her stuff is her stuff, and that me and my family moving into her house—albeit temporarily—must be a pretty big change, so I don’t want to ’mix-up’ anything else in her life.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Amy sucks for saying OP would take the kids without asking, and implying they should. Amy however is also not obligated to take the kids. "Keeping kids in the family" is a good goal but not at the expense of handing them off to people who can't afford or don't want them. Part of being a good parent is knowing you'd be a bad parent, and not harming children by trying to be one.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!...